Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Why..?

what i can't seem to understand is why people always leave? is it something we should be prepared to face in our lives, or is it always bound to happen? why can't we just find the person we like and be friends no attachments, no problems, no complications involved? Is it that hard to ask for, or is it impossible to find? I'm not sure i could live without a friend that lends me a shoulder when ever i cry, a friend that lends me a hand whenever i need help. If only i could understand the reason behind all this, maybe i could cope with what's happening. Although it's hard enough for me right now to just think of a reason, especially that friends usually stick by each other no matter what happens! I'd like to pretend that what i heard was an illusion, unfortunately i can't. Things don't always happen as planned, that i understand! and not all we want, we can get, that i understand as well! But that certainly doesn't mean it's the end! Why close the door when it's already half closed, why not let it be that way and take advantage of the half open?

Finally, to whom I'm talking about, changing is entirely ur choice, being a different person isn't going to help though, I'm sorry i lost a friend that i thought i'de never loose, thinking u'll always be the person i turn to for help and company, i guess i was wrong. What surprised me the most is that u're the first person who knows how this feels. Being left alone without a reasonable excuse. So, if this is how it's going to be from now on, i want you to know that, u're the best thing that ever happened to me.

"What hurts the most was being so close, and having so much to say and watching you walk away" - Rascal flatts

10 comments:

SpiKeY said...

ah friends come and go....I lost many friends during my lifetime...yet i gained alot too....Just dont look back...and keep going forward

q8Honey said...

not when they mean alot, and you've known them a very long time, it's hard to forget and move on

Anonymous said...

But this is a fact, everyone will leave you one day, nobody stays forever, real friends also leave and that is when everything ends, you end up alone. That is why you should believe that nothing lasts forever, maybe for years. it hurts though, you get used to those people, get close and feel good as long as they're around and when it's time to leave you feel bad, you should always know that this is life and it will always be like that, people change and life requires that too, they get hard circumstances.

Hope you get over it soon all you need is to be stronge. :)

q8Honey said...

I realized that now, thanks icon ;)

OutOfReach said...

i'm sorry
I hope you can get over it soon
I dont understand good friends , best friends should always be together no matter what, if they are really what they say they are - true friends - ,, how come they are leaving i hate it too but you know what as icon says nothing last forever, i know it hurts ..
be strong dear

rubz said...

7beeeebty enty we all go through this..o believe me im not trying to sound fylasoofa, but i actually lost 2 of my best friends in one year..with no reason..no excuse what so ever..the only thing that i could think of right now is that maybe we grew apart :S

anyway..wahtever hum el5sraneen..9dgeeny with my attitude u'll survive life :P

Abi-Omi-Abi-Oboy said...

This is a fact everyone ends up learning at one point in life. Friends come and go.

7ata the ppl u see that look as if they have the most perfect friendship.. most likely in 5, 10 yrs they dont even know each other.

Tadreen mta you'll stop being hurt when this happens in life? When someday, you urself, ra7 ten7a6ain eb mawqef that will force you to drift away from someone. You'll think 'Oh.. I see how this happens..' Usually mako neya shaina bel salfa.. It just.. "Happens" !

q8Honey said...

outofreach, Ruby, abi-omi-abi-oboy, thanks ;*

Anonymous said...

This is life..people come and go! Its sad but this is the truth!

q8Honey said...

Yeah we just have to accept that i guess.